In any marriage, it is essential to keep the romance alive. Luckily, there are so many romantic date ideas you can plan together that can help you to stay close and connected as a couple—and have a great time. I wanted to bring you a list of date ideas that is exclusively romantic and also on the sexy side. These 20 sexy date ideas for two are ideal for kicking the romance up a notch and prioritizing your relationship. Want to make your next date night steamy and memorable?

Have you already put together your own sex bucket list or have you shied away from creating it? Well, this one should be a no-brainer for everyone. While it can sound a bit too kinky for comfort at first, introducing blindfolds to the bedroom is a simple but effective way to spice up your sex life. With the sense of sight out of the game, you can enhance your other senses, and your focus specifically shifts to feeling the sensual touches from your partner, likely heightening the pleasure you can get from them. Giving your partner a lap dance can be such a fun way for both of you to enjoy some fun and foreplay before actually taking things to the bedroom.

You get to bring out your competitive side for good, have some lighthearted fun with your partner, and also have some really effing great sex at the same time. Plus, the odds flip so often, and with only two players, you can both be super engaged the whole time. No one will be waiting around for a whole crew of people to have their turn before it comes back to you. Giving can be just as gratifying for someone as receiving is for the other.