Q: I am a year-old virgin male. I have had no girlfriends and I find this very embarrassing, as these days no guy or girl stays a virgin after the age of Almost all my male friends have gone through relationships with girls. Now, I fear marriage, as I know it for sure that I will not be able to get a virgin wife. I fear that I will not know anything about her past life, as no female at least in our country reveals her past at any cost. I am a sensitive guy and if after the marriage I find that my woman has had past relationships, I'll be in great depression and feel cheated.

I met up with my friend after long and was mildly irritated that she had no time to spare for me now that her wedding preparations were on in full swing. I kept thinking about it the whole night. They made a chill run down my spine. Do we truly live in the 21st century or are our mindsets still rooted in the 20th century? To satiate my curiosity I spoke to a few guys and I am sharing their opinion with you all.

I know how you feel, because I was a virgin on my wedding day, but my wife was not. Like the woman you mentioned, my wife had become a new creation. But it was still a painful challenge to deal with the knowledge of her past.